Proverbs 31:30 states, "Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised." This passage highlights that true beauty is not merely an external quality; it is deeply rooted in one's relationship with God and personal character.
St. Dismas is recognized as the penitent thief who, in the Gospel of Luke 23:39-43, acknowledges Jesus’ innocence and asks Him to remember him when He comes into His kingdom. This pivotal exchange occurs as both criminals are suffering the ultimate penalty for their crimes.
For a non-virgin girl wishing to become a nun, the emphasis is placed on her faith, willingness to adhere to the vows of chastity, and personal growth rather than purely her past.
If a nun chooses to leave her religious order—often referred to as "discerning a call"—she may receive dispensation from her vows. This process usually involves formal communication with her religious superiors and may require a period of reflection and discernment.
In a broader theological sense, any form of rebellion against God’s commandments—particularly through deliberate rejection or defiance—constitutes a major sin.